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This is why we're all here....
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Building A Community of Support & Encouragement in our own quest
for what we really want....
GrandPlanToFindAMan.com is here
because I realized that as a divorced, middle-aged woman, I wanted a man in my life and had no idea how to get one.
I dressed 10 years older than my age and had spent so much time caring for my family, that I lost touch with how to
take care of myself. Hanging out in bars didn’t interest me because I don’t want
a man that hangs out in bars. I started on a journey to update my personal image,
increase my confidence, find out what really attracted men and where to find the kind of man I wanted.
Along the way, I realized that I’m not the only one like me. Many of us find ourselves in
our 40’s & 50’s and we’ve been married, divorced and raised kids or we are always in career mode and
have never been married. It doesn’t matter how or why you’re
here, it matters what you do from here forward.
GrandPlanToFindAMan.com
is a community where we can encourage, support and help each other get what we want – a man in our life.
Whether your goal is marriage or just to have male companionship in your life, you have to know
how to attract a man and keep him interested long enough for him to get to know who you really are. I
know and am respected by lots of men, but because of the image I was projecting, they had no idea I was seeking a romantic
relationship. In fact, when I started to make changes in my appearance, many
of my male friends not only noticed, but assumed that there was a new man in my life!
We will share secrets about how to look classy - not trashy, and still give off subtal
signals that you are open to a romantic relationship. Dressing to attract men is not about
showing as much skin as possible, it's about your overall appearance. MEN NOTICE
when a woman cares about her appearance without looking like she's ready to walk the street! One HUGE Turn-off
for men is a lack of personal hygene. Sorry girls, but we were sold a bill of goods
in the 60's & 70's when we were told to "let it all hang out", "he loves the natural me,"
and "if he's really THE ONE, he'll accept me no matter what I look like."
I don't want a man that "let's it all hang out" and thinks deodorant & showers are only for special
days or if he thinks he's going to get lucky..so why would a man want me like that? The "flower children" of
the 60's and 70's who promoted all that jargin are now CEO's of companies that specalize in body shapers,
waxing kits & selling books about how to keep your sex life alive during menapause! And
that business that if he's THE ONE, he'll love you "just the way I am" won't work if you're
a nasty, mean, depressed woman with no self-esteem and no self-respect. Self-improvement
is about becoming a BETTER YOU - not telling yourself how bad you are. YOU deserve YOUR
time and effort. Quit getting so involved in all your friends lives that you don't have one of your own!
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My Granny always said........Act like a lady
and you'll be treated like a lady! And she was right!
Let men open the door
for you if they offer - anywhere - any man! It doesn't mean you're weak or helpless. It's a simple
act of courtesy. Be sure to give him a nice smile and an enuthiastic "thank you!" A lot of men these
would be a gentlemen more often if women wouldn't act offended when they do.
You never know, your dream man may be the one opening the door for
you!
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We will share secrets about how to look classy -
not trashy, and still give off subtal signals that you are open to a romantic relationship. Dressing
to attract men is not about showing as much skin as possible, it's about your overall appearance.
MEN NOTICE when a woman cares about her appearance without looking like she's ready to walk the street!
One HUGE Turn-off for men is a lack of personal hygene. Sorry girls, but we were sold a bill
of goods in the 60's & 70's when we were told to "let it all hang out", "he loves the natural me,"
and "if he's really THE ONE, he'll accept me no matter what I look like." I don't
want a man that "let's it all hang out" and thinks deodorant & showers are only for special days or
if he thinks he's going to get lucky. The "flower children" of the 60's and 70's who promoted
"letting it all hang out" are now CEO's of companies that specalize in body shapers, waxing kits & selling
books about how to keep your sex life alive during menapause! And that business
that if he's THE ONE, he'll love you "just the way I am" won't work if you're
a nasty, mean, depressed woman. Self-improvement is about becoming a BETTER YOU - not telling
yourself how bad you are. YOU deserve YOUR time and effort. Quit getting
so involved in all your friends lives so that you can have one of your own!
You will have homework! You
can't make changes in your life without some effort on your part. We will recommend books to read, recipes
to learn and things for you to practice--yes I said practice. Which suggestions you incorporate into your life
is up to you, but before you discard the suggestions, remember what your goal is.
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